Military Sexual Trauma in Korea’s Drinking Culture and Trafficking: Lakeydra Houston (Part 2) | The Silenced Voices of MST with Rachelle Smith
Lakeydra Houston shares her story of Military Sexual Trauma in the U.S. Air Force, exposing alcohol culture in Korea, systemic betrayal, and survivor advocacy.
Lakeydra Houston shares her story of Military Sexual Trauma in the U.S. Air Force, exposing alcohol culture in Korea, systemic betrayal, and survivor advocacy.
U.S. Air Force veteran Lakeydra Houston discusses Military Sexual Trauma, alcohol culture in Korea, and her journey to advocacy on The Silenced Voices of MST .
Intro
U.S. Air Force veteran Lakeydra Houston shares her experience of Military Sexual Trauma while stationed in Korea, where a culture of heavy drinking and peer pressure created unsafe conditions for service members. She describes how trafficking operated inside the ranks, how leadership failed to act, and how systemic betrayal deepened her trauma. Despite these challenges, Lakeydra has become an advocate for survivors, emphasizing the need for accountability, support, and reform.
This is Part 2 of Lakeydra’s story. Read Part 1 here: https://www.silencedvoicesmst.com/blog/military-sexual-trauma-lakeydra-houston-part1
Episode Summary
In this continuation of her interview on The Silenced Voices of MST, Lakeydra Houston opens up about the ways Military Sexual Trauma shaped her service in the U.S. Air Force. Stationed in Korea, she encountered a drinking culture that normalized alcohol abuse and lowered safeguards for vulnerable service members. She explains how this environment not only increased the risk of assault but also protected perpetrators from accountability.
Lakeydra details multiple incidents of Military Sexual Trauma and the profound sense of betrayal she felt when leadership failed to act. Instead of receiving support, she faced retaliation, blame, and silence that compounded the harm. Her account also reveals the presence of trafficking networks inside the military, where power and authority were used to exploit and control.
Adding to this burden, Lakeydra experienced devastating personal loss with the death of her sister while she was still in service. The grief amplified her struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts, leaving her isolated in a culture unwilling to protect or support survivors.
U.S. Air Force veteran Lakeydra Houston discusses Military Sexual Trauma and alcohol culture in Korea on The Silenced Voices of MST with Rachelle Smith
Despite this, Lakeydra found strength in advocacy. By seeking therapy, connecting with survivor networks, and building community through groups like KeyFit and The Pink Berets, she began transforming her pain into purpose. Today, she speaks out about the connection between Military Sexual Trauma, toxic military culture, and systemic neglect, calling for urgent reform and trauma-informed care.
“You have to
remember your ‘why’.”
- Lakeydra Houston
This episode points out the intersection of Military Sexual Trauma, alcohol culture in Korea, trafficking within the Air Force, and the enduring fight for survivor justice.
Lakeydra’s experience is a rallying call to action. Her story exposes institutional betrayal, the hidden crisis of trafficking, and the devastating effects of unaddressed complex traumas. But take this to heart. Her story is an example of the almost miraculous healing power of support and community. Lakeydra’s journey shows that even in the darkest moments, there is still a dawn.
Episode Trigger Warnings and Timestamps
01:18–02:29: Alcohol abuse and toxic drinking culture
02:32–02:50: MST and military inaction
02:54–04:10: Peer pressure, bullying, isolation
04:23–05:39: Sexual assault, betrayal, victim blaming
05:42–06:18: Further assault, deepening trauma
06:25–07:23: Depression, reluctance to disclose
07:44–08:18: Human trafficking, leadership complicity
08:24–10:19: “Juicy Girls,” survivor guilt
11:02–14:10: Sister’s death, harassment, self-harm, suicidal thoughts
17:34–18:39: Supporting another MST victim, starting advocacy
19:31–20:34: Survivor silencing, victim blaming
26:08–26:43: Transition out of service, overdose mention, ongoing healingThis episode contains a few references to news articles and books that are listed below:
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About the Guest
Lakeydra Houston is a U.S. Air Force veteran, survivor of Military Sexual Trauma, and advocate for reform. Through her work with organizations such as KeyFit and The Pink Berets, she supports fellow survivors and pushes for systemic change in how the military addresses sexual assault.
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Why One Assault is Still Too Many
Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM) is a critical time for shedding light on the pervasive issue of military sexual trauma (MST) and its impact on service members. As we commemorate SAAM, it's essential to recognize the unique challenges faced by survivors of MST within the military community.Despite efforts to address this issue, the prevalence of MST underscores the urgent need for increased awareness, prevention, and support for survivors.
In honor of SAAM, we're proud to announce the release of a new free e-book offering valuable insights and resources for MST survivors. Additionally, our groundbreaking podcast series, Silenced Voices | Stories of MST, premieres on April 2nd, featuring powerful stories of survival and resilience.
April marks the beginning of Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), a time dedicated to raising awareness about sexual violence and its impact on individuals and communities. In recognition of this significant month, it is essential to shed light on the prevalence of military sexual trauma (MST) and its profound implications for survivors.
Understanding Military Sexual Trauma (MST): A Unique Challenge
Military Sexual Trauma (MST) is a pervasive issue that affects individuals serving in the military and their surrounding communities, regardless of gender, age, rank, or race. It encompasses a range of sexual violations, including sexual harassment, assault, and rape, perpetrated by fellow service members or superiors, and it can also happen to dependents. The prevalence of MST continuing rise, even after many publicized events after high-profile deaths and an unprecedented change to the UCMJ highlights the urgent need for increased awareness, prevention, and support for survivors within the military community.
As we observe Sexual Assault Awareness Month, it is crucial to recognize the unique challenges faced by survivors of MST. The hierarchical structure and male-dominated culture of the military can exacerbate feelings of powerlessness and isolation for survivors, making it difficult for them to come forward and seek help. Additionally, the stigma surrounding mental health and sexual assault within the military can further deter survivors from speaking out and accessing support services, especially if the trauma happens to a male.
In light of these challenges, raising awareness about MST is paramount in fostering a culture of accountability, support, and prevention within the military. By amplifying the voices of survivors, advocating for policy changes, and promoting education and training on sexual violence prevention, we can work towards creating safer and more inclusive environments for all service members. Here at Silenced Voices, we advocate for a cultural change in our military, so that those in need can get the help they need without fear of ridicule, being ostracized, or even further harmed.
Commemorating Sexual Assault Awareness Month: Free E-book Release
To commemorate Sexual Assault Awareness Month and honor the resilience of MST survivors, we are pleased to announce the release of a new free e-book, which is one of a three part series. This e-book offers valuable insights, resources, and strategies for survivors navigating the complexities of MST and seeking healing and empowerment. Not only is this e-book a resource for those unfamiliar with MST and would like to learn more, it also showcases strength and courage of survivors trying to heal while underscoring the importance of supporting and advocating for their rights.
The Symbolism of the Teal Ribbon: Reflecting the Year-Round Struggle
The teal ribbon has become a symbol of awareness and support for survivors of sexual assault. It serves as a reminder that sexual assault remains a problem year-round until it is eradicated.
That is why Silenced Voices | Stories of MST uses teal in its logo and most of its products—to reflect the ongoing struggle and to stand in solidarity with survivors. It is also a nod to Rosie the Riveter, the women that stepped up to work in factories and more during WW2, as part of their patriotic duty. We could think of nothing more patriotic than advocating the safety and mental health of our service members and their communities.
Announcing Silenced Voices | Stories of MST: Premiering April 2nd
Again, we are excited to announce the premiere of Silenced Voices | Stories of MST’s second season on April 2, 2024. We are introducing video podcasts to help expand awareness and bring in more support. Please subscribe to our YouTube channel to see each episode and also learn about recent headlines concerning Military Sexual Trauma. Our first guest, UN Ambassador Eileen Dong, will share her powerful story of survival and resilience, offering inspiration, hope, and more resources to survivors worldwide.
The Symbolism of the Teal Ribbon: Reflecting the Year-Round Struggle
Next week, as we begin the month of awareness and advocacy during Sexual Assault Awareness Month, stand in solidarity with survivors of MST and reaffirm our commitment to creating a military and a world free from sexual violence. Together, we can break the silence, challenge the stigma, and build a future where all individuals are treated with dignity, respect, and equality.
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Survivor Eileen Dong Takes on Human Trafficking
Get ready for an enlightening conversation on our upcoming podcast episode, premiering April 2, 2024. We're thrilled to introduce Eileen Dong, a passionate advocate against human trafficking. Join us as we explore the misconceptions surrounding trafficking, its intersection with military sexual trauma, and the importance of support for survivors. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion that promises to shed light on crucial issues and inspire positive change.
As we eagerly prepare for the debut of Season 2 of our podcast on April 2, 2024, we're thrilled to introduce you to our first guest, UN Ambassador Eileen Dong. In anticipation of this insightful conversation, we're shaking things up by not only bringing you our usual audio format but also introducing video podcasts on YouTube. It's an exciting time as we expand our reach and dive deeper into crucial topics.
So, let's take a moment to get acquainted with our remarkable guest and the important discussion ahead.
UN Ambassador Eileen Dong
Founder and Executive Director
Hope Pyx Global
Recipient of the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award
In our conversation, Eileen shares her journey, shedding light on the harrowing realities of human trafficking and its intersection with military sexual trauma (MST). It's a conversation that challenges misconceptions and emphasizes the urgent need for action and support.
Her story is one of courage, resilience, and unwavering commitment to making the world a better place. She works tireless in advocacy against human trafficking and gender-based violence serves as a symbol of hope for survivors everywhere. During the interview, we're reminded of the importance of listening, supporting, and taking action to create a safer, more compassionate world for all.
Human trafficking is a global issue, far more prevalent and insidious than many realize. Eileen highlights the misconceptions surrounding trafficking, emphasizing that it can happen to anyone, regardless of their background or location. Through her work, she aims to debunk myths and raise awareness about the true scale of this crisis.
Finding Passion and Purpose
Eileen's journey to becoming an advocate against human trafficking is deeply personal. It stems from her own experiences as a survivor of polyvictimization and her unwavering commitment to preventing others from enduring similar horrors. Her passion and purpose drive every action, inspiring others to join the fight. Survivors of human trafficking often grapple with long-term effects that extend far beyond their immediate ordeal. Eileen emphasizes the importance of support systems and empathy in helping survivors heal and rebuild their lives.
Recognizing the signs of trafficking and offering support can be life-changing. Eileen provides valuable insights into how individuals can identify potential victims and take action to intervene and offer assistance.
Cultural sensitivity and ending victim blaming are essential components of addressing human trafficking effectively. Eileen emphasizes the need for empathy and understanding, urging society to see trafficked individuals as human beings deserving of dignity and respect.
Eileen’s Upcoming Book and Projects
Eileen's dedication to her cause knows no bounds. She shares details about her upcoming projects, including a book targeting law enforcement and a survivor-centered guide. Her relentless pursuit of justice and support for survivors is truly inspiring.
Eileen's upcoming book promises to be a valuable resource for survivors, law enforcement, and community members alike. It provides a comprehensive guide to understanding and combating human trafficking, offering practical insights and technical information.
Let's continue the conversation on April 2, and take meaningful action to support survivors and end human trafficking once and for all. Join us in listening to and thanking Eileen Dong for her tireless efforts and for being a voice for the voiceless. Together, we can build a future free from exploitation and violence.
Resources
National Human Trafficking Hotline: 888-373-7888
National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-Hope
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
Stay connected with Eileen Dong
Website: Eileen Dong
Book: Thank Your Predator: A Guide to Trauma Recovery from Abuse
International Conference on Abuse: Hope Pyx Global
For upcoming events and resources: Hope Pyx Global
To make a tax-deductible donation: Hope Pyx Global
International Survivors Network: Facebook Group
The Ms Texas Show: YouTube
Social Media: LinkedIn - Eileen Dong, LinkedIn - Hope Pyx Global